2 Corinthians 1.3-5
He comes alongside us when we go through hard times, and before you know it, he brings us alongside someone else who is going through hard times so that we can be there for that person just as God was there for us. We have plenty of hard times that come from following the Messiah, but no more so than the good times of his healing comfort—we get a full measure of that, too.
God comes ALONGSIDE YOU through this hard time! you may experience plenty of hard times now - what with managing the children or your family or your uncomfortable financial situation or all of them, but these hard times ARE NO MORE THAN THE GOOD TIMES with God! you get a FULL MEASURE OF THAT TOO! this is God's answer to your question whyother people seem to have it better than you.: well that's just it - A SEEMING DISADVANTAGE FOR FOLLOWERS OF JESUS - but the truth is YOUR HARD TIMES ARE NO MORE THAN THE GOOD TIMES OF GOD! so we know we can keep going, keep your decision full, face life with the confidence of knowing that YOU ARE TRULY SECURE IN HIM! that you're in a better position everytime you're with your family no matter how uncomfortable, you're in a better position right now no matter how seemingly uncomfortable your finances are, you are in a much much better position right now in the hands of God than being miserable in the hands of man that rob you of your time with family, strength and all, WE ARE ALL IN A BETTER POSITION RIGHT NOW and FOREVER, because WE ALL GET A FULL MEASURE OF THE GOOD TIMES OF GOD'S HEALING COMFORT!